BIG problem Its kinda long but important Please help?

BIG problem Its kinda long but important Please help?

Ok my sister got married in April... Her husband has always said Im his favorite sister in law. He has 2 others. Whenever I go stay the weekend over there my sister says that hes in a really good mood and he always does something fun like take us out to a nice place to eat or go see a movie or something... One time he randomly said that we were gonna go to the zoo lol. And he rented Twilight even though he said he would never watch it because of me... And I didnt even ask him to But hes been acting weird... Too nice. Hes started calling me all the time which I didnt have a problem with a first but then he started saying that we should hang out without my sister. I think he was joking but Im not sure. Because a few days ago I was in a bad mood and he kept calling so I told my sister to tell him to stop... But when she did he said that It wasnt him calling me but I know that it was After that he quit calling for a while but now hes started again I havent been answering. I dont know what to do Ive told him to stop it just doesnt feel right. Hes 27 Im 16. If he would talk just as a friend that would be one thing but hes asking if Im a virgin and things like that. I dont want to tell my sister and cause problems between them because shes really happy... But I dont know how else to get him to stop And what if it really doesnt mean anything and hes just playing around and it would cause a big problem for nothing? Im just afraid of causing problems for them... A long time ago my sister brought a guy friend home from college and he acted really weird around me kinda fliry and I was just a little kid. It creeped me out so I told one of my friends and my parents found out. they wouldnt let my sister talk to him or anything and she was mad at me for a long time. Now that Im older Ive been having second thoughts maybe he was just being friendly and it makes me feel really guilty if he got in that much trouble for being nice. I dont want the same thing to happen this time... Idk maybe Im judging things wrong because of that but Ugh I need help What should I do?

Asked by Boo about Other Family Relationships

I personally feel that you should confront your sister about this. It will be hurtful now but in the long run it will help possible bigger issues not even involving you.

Answered by kc

Okay I know you dont want to cause problems for your sister in her new relationship but I think that she would be even angrier if you didnt tell her about a situation like this. Its for your own good and for the good of your sister. She may not like it now but she will in the future. A 27 year old man should NOT be asking about your sexuality or anything of that sort. Either way it goes you are going to have to tell somebody or this will end up getting out of hand

Answered by Kat